Appears like your man is not in your group w/r/t their intercourse dreams. That is no bueno for the reasons that i suppose Dan (i did not read their reply yet) stated.
Regarding the concern “we don’t understand why the guy couldn’t get difficult” – nerves would be the boner killer that is biggest of most. Perhaps the nerves from a unknown girl sucking your cock could be sufficient.
Can there be something we are able to do in order to make this “it shouldn’t be anticipated that guys can screw any right some time destination and constantly desire to screw of course they may be easy it is because they are perhaps maybe perhaps not drawn to the person their with” concept get away?
And so I’m unsure exactly what the 3rd did to justify being named an asshole. It seemed he had been alone respecting your boundaries and also at minimum attempting to make use of condom. So when it had been clear the man you’re seeing had been a shit, he peaced away as opposed to try that which was plainly a fucked up intimate situation. If We were in exactly what We thought was a consensual-all-around threesome and another individual beginning providing things one other clearly vetoed, We’d be getting away from here, too.